Where to start
Your life didn't unfold the way you imagined. Now what?
I help divorced women discover a new purpose for life after divorce, take their next faithful step, and find peace in the in-between.
Who Is This For
You might be here because…..
There’s a space between what was and what’s next, and you’re in the middle of it.
Your divorce is final, and now you’re facing what an annulment could mean for you, your children
and your future.
You’re waiting on a judge or a tribunal to decide what’s next, and you’re wrestling with the uncertainty of the unknown.
You’re not free to date yet, but are aching for companionship because you’re tired of being alone.
You’ve realized the longing for marriage is still in you, and you’ve opened your heart to someone know quietly hoping this could lead to a fulfilling, sacramental marriage.
Wherever you are, you’re ready to talk about your next step with someone who’s been there. That’s what a Clarity Session is for.
BEFORE YOU REACH OUT
Is This Right For Me?
Coaching for women discovering a new vision for life after divorce, including pursuing an annulment.
A space to think out loud about your decisions, so you can hear more clearly what’s God’s peace and what’s your own noise.
Support from someone with lived experience and a track record of helping women find clarity.
This is
This isn’t
Therapy or trauma processing, that work belongs with a licensed mental health professional.
Spiritual direction or canon law advice, that’s work for your priest, canon lawyer or spiritual director.
Crises care or intervention, if you are in crises, please reach out to a licensed provider or crisis line.
Coaching is not a substitute for therapy, legal counsel, medical care or spiritual direction, but it does complement those supports.
What Coaching Looks Like With Me
Coaching is non-directive. I won't tell you what to do, and I won't make decisions for you. That’s not my role, and it never was Jesus’s either. Again and again in the Gospels, He asks the question first.
“What do you want me to do for you?”
(Mark 10:51)
He asks Bartimaeus, a blind man who could
have simply been healed without ever being asked. Jesus wanted him to name his own desire.
That’s the model of our work together. I’ll sit in the thinking with you. We’ll get honest about what you actually want, become aware of what matters most, name the values worth holding onto, and look clearly at what’s standing in the way, so together we can find your next step.
Because I've lived a version of this myself, I'm also able to share from experience, mine or another woman's, for you to consider, never as the answer, but as something that's proven fruitful along the way.
Sessions are done by phone, not video, somewhere quiet, in a space that feels comfortable and supported. It's confidential, and if you're open to it, prayer together is welcome too, whatever feels right for you. Most women start with a Clarity Session. Those who already know they want ongoing support apply for Foundation, a six-month coaching relationship.
From One Woman To Another
There's a space between what was and what's next. It's called liminal space, and it shows up through the unraveling of a marriage, the wilderness of divorce and the dawning of a new life on the other side. Nothing quite prepares a woman’s heart for this. Most of us don’t get married to get divorced, so there’s no playbook for what comes next.
Imagine being able to process it all out loud with someone who already understands the grief, the ache, and the parts that don’t make sense to anyone who hasn’t lived it. Friends may want to celebrate it’s finally over. But you’re not throwing a party. You’re relieved it’s behind you, and still grieving the life you were promised and didn’t get. There can be so much shame in carrying that quietly, in a marriage and in its ending. This work we do together is a place to say the thing out loud, be met with honesty and care, right where you are.
And when you’re ready, this is also a place to welcome in the joy of a new beginning. Healing is ongoing, this side of heaven it always will be, and joy doesn’t wait for you to get there first. Grief and gladness can live in the same season.
That’s where I come in. I’m a certified and experienced life coach who has walked this road with women for years, helping them move through these in between seasons with more of God’s grace, peace, and clarity.
Want to know more? Read my story here.
Start by listening. Come hear a woman who's walked this same road,
wilderness, waiting, and all, before you ever say a word to me.
Not Ready to reach out yet?
What People Are Saying
“A dear friend introduced me to Andy's work while I was in the early stages of divorce after a long, painful season in a destructive marriage. From the beginning, Andy created a space where I felt safe, seen, and spiritually supported. One coaching session in particular stands out: through her thoughtful questions and support, I found the clarity and courage to set a boundary that protected my peace. That moment was a real turning point for me. Andy's guidance was a steadying force in a season of upheaval. I'm so grateful for the way she weaves together deep faith, practical insight, and lived experience to walk with women like me.”
— Morgan S.“I love Andy so much! What I can make so confusing and hard, she is able to help me discern a clear path through. Especially when it comes to confidently communicating with my former spouse around co-parent-ing conversations. Her leadership in faith and trust in God's providence is such a gift.”
— Laurawhere to start
Not sure where to start? Let’s talk. Click here to send a message or book a free call with Andy.
You might be wondering…..
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One of the great things about coaching is that it's flexible and built entirely around you, no diagnosis required, no insurance company involved in your care, and no paperwork standing between you and getting support. Coaching isn't billed through insurance, but a payment plan is available for ongoing coaching work.
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That's the great thing, I can work with anyone, anywhere. Sessions are held by phone or Zoom using audio only, so location isn't a barrier. I've had the privilege of working with women in Lincoln and out of state as well.
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Yes, everything you share stays between us, with the exception of mandatory reporting requirements under the law.
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There are a few easy ways. Many women start by listening to a few podcast episodes first, a low-pressure way to get familiar with me before we ever speak. (I often hear “I felt safe with you” from that alone.) A Clarity Session also makes a meaningful gift; some family members purchase one for a loved one to give her that experience of being supported. And if she’d rather just talk it through first, I’m always happy to hop on a quick call, no pressure, just a conversation to see if it’s a good fit.